Political Process of Love

Love is like a political process. Someone has to have their eye on what position they want to be. They have to have the educational background and experience to be eligible for the position, and they have to have a clean background check.
Next, they have to run for office, smiling and telling the interested parties what they want to hear for as long as they are running. Then they have to be voted into office by the popular vote.

Once your lover has gained their "polical title", their representative disappears (the one who has mastered the art of "smiling and waving") and the real persong shows up, and begins to make the laws that they want, forgetting about the drive and the passion that it took to get to their political position in the first place.

Some people are so caught up in the title that they have acquired that they forget about what's important about their jobs and how their jobs can really change people's live's...

When you're in love similarly, and more importantly, when you're in a relationship, you have to make sure that the same passion that you put into getting the job, is the passion that you put into keeping and maintaining that job...
Because there's always another election, right around the corner...

But, on the flip side, ensure that when you "electing" a lover, you pay close attention to the "titles" they have held in the past, the policies they have developed, the laws they live by, and whether or not they had a successful political term or not....

This information will be very important in deciding what policies they will govern your relationship by in the present.

If they've had a lot of opposition in the past, they will have learned many loop holes, and will be all about "change" in their position with you. If they've have minimal opposition in the past, chances are they may expect you to bow and scrape for them.....just be mindful, keep your eyes open, and pay attention to the things they are not saying.

A.D. 2008

I met him at the crossroads. And thats where we have met ever since.

The Problem with Women

Why can't women get along and have the kind of commroderie that men have naturally?
For the most part men are cordial with each other and do things with brotherly love.
I sat at a table last night with a bunch of uppity women, who were too good to speak when they sat down at the table. How do you sit at a table with one person at it, and not say hello? How are you? My name is...? I had to take it upon myself to introduce myself to everyone that sat at the table, and they still were acting funny.
It's called social skills and women, and these were all younger black women, lack it at rate that raises a lot of eyebrows.
Not to mention a few people that I actually call friends who were acting funny as well, I guess because they were in the presence of people with perceived clout. They are so full of shit.

Why Ask God for Something you Haven't Planned for?

If you want to get a loan from the bank, whether it's for business, or for a personal endeavor, you must first submit a plan, detailing every bit of your businesses's initiative and outlining how the money you are borrowing is going to help you to get your business up and running, and how it will lead to profits in the future.
Most importantly, the plan will explain just how you plan to repay that loan with interest.
When you want something given to you, you must provide a detailed analysis and plan of what is to be implemented in the future.

Why then, if we ask God for something, would we not plan for the blessing that we hope to receive from him?
If you have asked him for a financial blessing, why would you not develop a plan to show God just how you plan on using that money, who the money will be beneficial to, and how you will use it to further God's kingdom?
Or if you have asked him for the blessing of a loving partner and companion, why would you not provide him with information on how you plan on being the best wife or husband that you can be?
It's important that we develop a plan and strategy on how we plan on managing the gift's that the Lord gives us, and how we will use them to glorify God's name, who will benefit from that money, and how we plan on repaying God (although we never can) for the undeserved blessings that we receive from him.
If we can effectively plan for the blessings we receive, God will be pleased and more secure in blessing us.

Diamonds are Pieces of Coal that Stuck to Their Job

"Diamonds, are just pieces of coal that stuck to their job"...

What exactly is the job of a hump of coal, destined to be a Diamond?
1st, a hump of coal is a very diverse piece of matter.
One piece of coal can be millions of years old, with the sediment of many generations intertwined with the vegetation and insect life of any given time.

That little black piece of coal, is rich with life, and the essence of energy.
2nd a piece of coal has to withstand millions of pounds of pressure,
extreme heat tempuratures, for extended amounts of time.

That's all a piece of coal has to do to become a diamond.
And it doesn't need any body to discover it to be a beautiful diamond. It just exists.

They say Diamond's are a woman's best friend.
I suppose it's because we share similar histories.