I know why so many people are single. Forget about the daunting statistics about how there's a shortage of "eligible" "good" partners to select from to marry; their pointless. The majority of the people that are single nowadays, are in their current state because they chooose to be. Their life's direction, the signals they give off to the universe, the way they live their lives, and the type of DVD's they purchase from Netflix all scream "Single".
It's almost as if being single is prerequisite for having friends, a social life, and the freedom to be able to do what you want, when you want, without having to answer to anyone. But the real reason why people are single is because most of them are pussies! Not pussy in the sense of having one....but Pussies in the sense that they lack the skill, dedication, passion and hard work necessary to make a relationship work. Most of them are "afraid" to get hurt again, and scarred and damage from past relationships (most of which were started because they made mistakes in the people they choose to be in relationships with).
Love and relationships are hard work....meaning, you're going to have to roll up your sleeves and get down in the trenches. You're going to get hurt in the process, you're going to be misunderstood, and you may even have an argument or two, but that's all a part of the process of the joining togther of two lives for love and companionship.
Stop being a pussy! That goes for the men and the women! Stop being scared about what might happen, or what might not happen....or what happened in the past. Stop painting new furniture with an old beat up paint brush, meaning, stop applying the stuff that didnt work from your last relationship to new ones!
Love is hard work. Not for the faint of heart. It's a dirty job, but someone's got to do it!
